How To Read People like a book

Sunday, January 8, 2012

How To Read People1


Do you sometimes wonder why the heck certain people do the stuff that they do? In my blog I will teach the basics and go more into detail about humans and their unique behaviors.

HOW WE CAN READ PEOPLE

Generally people are easily read by their pictures and how they put that into actions. In this section I’ll further explain the two and how they coincide together.
Pictures are images that cannot be seen, in other words private thoughts that are stored inside the brain for later access.
From the time of a child’s birth humans learn and record behaviors.  These previously stored pictures are in one section of the brain which I’m going to refer to as ‘House of Records’. The ‘House of records’ records pictures that’s entered in a humans mind, i.e. when they see or hear something they want to justify that in their brain, which makes the brain compare the picture that’s already been recorded with the new picture its receiving. If the new image matches with the stored picture they have (in the House of Records) a human recognizes it, and accepts it as past recognition. If the image obtained is only partial, most humans have the urge to step back and do more research to figure out the solution to the image. Lastly if the new picture does not match the ‘House of records’ the brain rejects the subject and doesn’t make sense of it.
Facial expressions are different then pictures, we will be discussing this in the next section.
Now you know that the short answer to thinking is “comparing two pictures with one another”.
This is where an individual’s personality comes in. The attitudes and/or expressions shown are a direct result of their environment and their personal experience. That means every single person has a different reaction to one same subject.  Let’s say for example:  Mike, Faye and Farah are in the car on the way to the beach, like any other person they were in the appropriate seats along with safety belts.  A small fender bender occurs with another vehicle which has brought up a reaction from each, the reaction that occurred from these individuals came from one base: shock and fear, but was expressed different on each person.  

That means every human is programmed in the same manner, we all have one base reaction but what we do from then on is very different and is based on the culture and habitat we grew up in. In the next section I will go into more debt of how facial and body language are incorporated. 

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